Wednesday, 6 December 2017

As per normal, I expect that, you the reader, has not a small amount of trouble, being able to talk about Masturbation.
So via the privilege, of the Internet, I felt that I could help.
But I have to acknowledge the Bishops in the Mormon church, that maintain a vigil, on the subject.
To the best of my knowledge, no other church does as much as the Mormons, who are also known as The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.
Yet I make mention of possible benefits of Masturbation, and that a word for it can not be found in the Bible.
Yet in every language, there are many of such words.

As a Christian, I praise God by reading the Bible.
But I am sad of the lack of Masturbation Care, that seemingly every part of humanity seems to have.
The best exception being Psychologists against Addictions.
In the Bible, Jesus wants a person to have a "Heart of Flesh".
In most of Human history, before modern vibrators et al, Stone Phallus idols and Stone Vagina idols were used, and they are like the Heart of Stone.
Which is replaced by the Heart of Flesh, that empathic healing services, offer in the form of, Anatomical Drawings of the Phallus and Vagina, and more care during Masturbation.
Only randy sales in the form of Porn and Pop culture, have made Masturbation less safe.

From being among a wide variety of Health Professionals in the Seventh Day Adventists, I felt the term Heart of Flesh, is most likely, the forsaking the lust for the flesh, for the care and love of the flesh, that Medical people do.
But there is so much to study.
Where to start?
I think that Masturbation is the best topic to start and keep learning, especially for the young people, in the prime of their health.
As adolescence, is fraught with many big danger experiments, and masturbation is the most common of them all.
But also, how God in the Bible emphasises sexual sin, as leading to injustice et al, in many examples, from bad kings of Israel to bad countries of renown such as Sodom and Gomora.
This was probably from accidental pregnancies.
But also the jerk like culture that sex has plenty of.

In regard of the Psychologists against Addiction, this is part of a World wide hope for maintenance, of the integrated and technological Civilisation of this age of Science.
That via Medicine both in volunteers and also in the main works, the Professional is famously with amazing rigour against risks.
So for that I am thankful, as this is such a high standard of living in history, so rarely seen.

I remember an Australian Psychologist, of name Clive Carey.
He was originally a teacher in a Boarding School. (Maybe of a Military Culture, it has been suggested)
His answer, to my Social Phobia difficulty, was to redevelop my Hierarchical Thinking, that he said I probably had whilst growing up.
I asked him about religion, but he did not say of anything that I can remember.
I was not then a believer in 1994, of age 34, 23 years ago.
I had just been on holiday in Amsterdam, smoking Cannabis and regularly Window Shopping, of the oldest profession in the world.
But I remember, that anti alcoholic addiction, was Clives prime speciality.
Close to that time then, I had a vision, of a Jesus like personage, with charge to care for my approximate 100 years of living.
I still do not think, that it was self deception, as does apparently happen with, the most common experiment of adolescence.
Today I value the Bible, and feel confident that it will be, in its entirety defendable for ever.

A good place to start, is with a few medical conditions.
As they are relatively well examined and researched:-

Prostatitis - it is recommended to wash away the harmful wastes of this condition by:
-Drinking a lot of water.
-Doing Masturbation, 2 to 3 times a week, but no more than once a day.
-Pressing on and massaging the prostate gently.
The same is recommended for women, who may be at risk of cervical cancer.
It is from parasitic virus and bacteria debris.

Insomnia - it is recommended to do Masturbation at the time of going to bed to sleep.

Stress relief - when Masturbation can be done in private, then it is likely to be of some help.

Sore on the For-skin - seek ways to give the For-skin time to heal and ways to masturbate with more due care.

Sore in the Vagina -  seek ways to give the Vagina time to heal and ways to masturbate with more due care.

Paraphilia - is a very common condition that develops around the age of 17, it is a sort of parasitic sexual interest, that allows Masturbation to function, relatively harmlessly, but can surface outwardly and harmfully in some form, such as Pedophilia and even worst activities such as in some Pagan religious worship.
This is where Christianity and Medicine differ most of all, with variations from Church to Church.
But only Mormons keep a regular vigil, on whatever is going on.
They believe in zero Masturbation!
Some may call this just a Strawman Proposal for the sake of manifesting more forum on this difficult topic, that Criminal Pathologists believe could help.
But if you ask a Mormon, it is not at all considered as such, but there are more Police and Soldiers and Body Gaurds in this Church, than any other that I know of.
Their stance, does some what simplify, and even probably develops at least some personal discipline in the ones who just prefer to lie about it.
Though sadly this discipline can be also about hiding the harmfulness.
In the ten commandments, it says you must not lie, do adultery (even in thought, Jesus said), do idolatry (the Bible shows examples of how sexuality can lead to pagan worship), do image worship (porn has never been as big as it now is), coveting (women feel that they could be stalked, more than ever before), respecting your parents and keeping the Sabbath. Masturbation may be natural, but the thoughts involved probably violate every commandment, every so often.

The Chinese are famous for their tradition of mind over body discipline, especially in Martial Arts.
Its a little known fact, that they found a technique to not ejaculate during orgasm.
Technique, is to hard for the ordinary person, so it is easier, to play dolly fantasy in the mentality in order to release the bio function of Masturbation.
The actual ministers of Buddhism, recommended, at least among themselves, to not Masturbate, as it develops a grabby mentality.

The Indians, who live in hot sweaty weather, with little clothing, have little prohibition against masturbation.
They have a surprisingly gentle culture, but they are enjoying the new privacy of modern toilets to go to toilet in, especially the ladies.
There is even a place in India, where Monks feed rats with milk, and this makes their rats less disease carrying perhaps.

The mind is more flexible than most have noticed, and I believe there may be a form of masturbation, that does not violate any of the ten commandments in thoughts.
But few probably make the effect to find it, and be honest and confess it in Psycho Analysis or to a carful fellow believer.
This is where a believer must try harder than a Church can help, in the private.
Discerning Against Sin, is a personal crusade, and that is a lonely one, except that Jesus' Spirit reduces the alone feeling.
Yet this struggle with Masturbation is nearly everyones battle.

Some say, this was started by the very first Sin, which they say was sexual.
Even with a Reptile…..!
Bored Angels with the task of monitoring the recycling worm of the Planets Ecology, perhaps can't keep to their boring station, are possibly hoping to make hybrids with their worms, to liven up the boredom, is my feeling, of what could be happening.
But God has made Masturbation this difficult way, and perhaps, this is how the monitoring roles are being shared out, for His Ecological Creation.
I hope, for being away from the goring of Hell and nearer the kindness I hope for in Heaven.
May it Heave me to be there.

In summary I would say as a believer, the teenager must realise the importance of developing delicate higher sensitive emotions for building marriage, as without the aim for a Biblical Marriage the default tendency is what I call rape marriage in the mind during masturbation.
This fantasy could even have the masturbator fantasising being enslaved and raped, in order to release the masturbation functionality.
In the fast arriving insanity, the invasive element, is often easily ignored by everyone.

In practice both Professional Psychologists and carful fellow believers are not easily available, anywhere at all, for the common activity of masturbation.
Except in the Mormons, where their dogmatic
confession and prohibition is not as gentle as perhaps it ought to be, in my experience.
Many a time I felt like giving up this enforcing doctrine of self analysis.
Their Addiction meetings can help a bit, but still are a bit non comfortable.
The trouble is, is that they refuse to develop professional skills, it remains amateur and unpaid.
They say it must always be so, as the world values mostly just have a knock yourself out mentality on the topic of masturbation, whilst maintaining both a culture against talking it out. or acceptance of its naturalness.
This tricky crevice in the human condition, is not carefully cared for.
Not even by the most well paid prostitutes.
Though perhaps in a few marriages. I should hope.

As of the present time, I expect to leave the Mormons, and hope for the best, as the treatment is not changing and is just staying uncomfortable.
For the time being I continue to learn their way, which has the family farm at its heart.
I honestly believe, that Jesus understands the nature of Masturbation, that it is natural, and its badness is reduce able, in the belief relationship, which is all I have anyway, at the end of the day.

More examples of the Heart of Stone, replaced by Heart of Flesh:-
Stone written Commandments, enforced by capital punishment replaced by Paper written Scripture, loved in Bible study.
Physical Circumcision, in arranged Marriage and Child care replaced by Spiritual Circumcision, in empathic Marriage and Child care.

In this day an age, teens have to wait many years before they can earn for children, but there is also many contraceptive ways as well.
The Apostle Paul, said it is better not to "burn", and to Marry instead.
Teen couples remain an informal culture.
But air safety is made by training, and so can sex safety be as well.